The Case for Legalized Prostitution in America from a Male SMV Perspective

Most pro-legalize prostitution articles analyze the phenomenon by explaining factors upon how women will benefit: the elimination of pimps, STD testing, tax revenues, reduction of human trafficking, etc which are all cut and dry benefits. I beg to examine the other perspective, how does not legalizing prostitution impact a large segment of men?

For the below average man (in sexual market value terms, SMV) in this town and the vast majority of America (50% of the male population), p0rn is increasingly becoming the only outlet to release any sexual tension. Attractive women are either being priced out or are already in exclusive relationships leaving nobody available but undesired women: overweight/obese, multiple kids with multiple partners, very old, etc. This along with prostitution’s illegality prevents any sexual tension release with actual desirable women short of a crime. Even then, people wonder why there are mass killings by these below average males. It is due to their rejection by society with a large part of the damage being done by women who had rejected them. Legalizing prostitution can save many lives and regulate something that has been going on, is going on, and will continue into the future. Guaranteed.

Game is not the savior it claims to be when you must spend the lion share of your time continuing to earn income to be able to foster a lifestyle that will earn you a higher social status which will translate to higher quality women. Game is a full-time job with marginal benefits for a lower-than-average income earner. The top gurus claim only 5% conversion rates. That’s 1 out of 20 approaches, 5 out of 100, and so on. The amount of time required to gain any traction in approaching that sheer number of females would prevent the man from pursuing extra income. On the other side of the coin, the man with an established lifestyle who has time to devote to the game really has something special working in his favor. Game can be a temporary fix given the man is willing to put in the work even if it includes losing time to working on earning more income.

Thus, we must entertain the idea of legislating legalized prostitution. The trend of attractive women being tougher and tougher to date will continue as technology  continues its path (Twitter, Instagram, Facebook) as they are able to price out the average to below average male as if they were on the auction block simply by posting sexy pictures of themselves. Due to this, attractive women in person have very high standards these days. The only other option for our below average SMV male is sexbots, dolls, porn, or CRIME. As a man, I empathize with these men even amidst my own struggles with women. My prediction is that if prostitution becomes legal in America, as in taxed and regulated, then our attractive women will receive less attention causing their behaviors to shift which will restore some parity in this dating market. Knowing the Puritan roots of  this increasingly feminized nation, I won’t be holding my breath for any traction on this issue. God Bless America



2015 Exists to Rehash my Lifestyle

“…baby you like Dom, maybe this Cristal’ll change your life, huh? Roll with the winners.” – Jay-Z: Dead Presidents II



The time has come in my life to put myself in a true position to create the lifestyle I’ve longed for. I’ve had some opportunities present themselves that can set me up to reap benefits in the very near future. All it takes is for me to remain focused, and that itself will translate to less dating and more learning the trade. I’ve quit my stagnating job to focus on this full time. I am excited to be on the track to demand much higher pay concurrent with more time off. 2015 is set to be an emerging year with lifestyle to be set in 2017/2018 at the age of 30/31. My thirties are set to be the best decade yet. Here’s to 2015 and to some future initiatives:




Find the Game that Works for You

There are many universal truths to the game that hold true for virtually anywhere in the world such as: being confident, wearing nice clothes, not being needy, etc. Nevertheless, there are multiple schools of game that promote certain styles of game over others. There’s asshole/cocky game, clown game, big baller game, romantic game, gangsta game, beta game among others that work at varying degrees of success.  It is imperative you use the optimal game based on your current location, look, style, income, and personality. These are not absolute, however, and can shift especially when relocating or traveling to another city/state/nation.


New Orleans, Louisiana. 2nd tier American city (world class city in some respects), with large tourist population. Targets are: 1) mostly African American women including a large percentage of mulattas, 2) white women from Uptown, Bywater, Lakeview, and neighboring suburbs, 3) latinas predominantly from Honduras, Mexico, and to a lesser extent the Dominican Republic, and 4) tourists from everywhere around the globe. Based on this location with a large AA female population (who show me the most interest), I have found a variant of clown and asshole game gets the best reception from them. If I had the willpower to work 10x as hard than I have to for black women then I would purse more whites and latinas.


I am on the taller half in height, with a slender body, light-skinned black, and so my look from my experiences is most receptive to black women regardless of where I go in America.  I tend to use my time and resources to connect with black women because of that fact. That is not to say, however, that I do not approach women of other races/ethnicities who give me IOIs (indicators of interest) which is not that rare.


I am somewhat thrifty so my outfits from head to toe will seldom cost more than $100 total. I’d like to say I leave the house looking decent but improvement can definitely be made. Every once in a while, I like to wear a suit when I go out. The difference in reception is noticeable. Due to my style, I tend to frequent places where there are a lot of other guys (competition) and have to “out-game” other guys. In the near future, I would like to be comfortable where I can patronize establishments with $15 cocktails pretty often with no sweat along with the attire to boot.


I am of lower middle class income. I am working on increasing that in the next few years. I am considering returning to school for a 2 year skilled craft since my 4 year degree and Master’s haven’t boosted my income. Due to a few changes in my lifestyle, I have been able to save a bit more the past few months. The game I have to use based on my income excludes most high-end establishments (where 8+ women tend to go) so I am consistently in places where there are an equal ratio 1:1 of men to women or places with more men to women.  I don’t do sausagefests. My income level has also caused me to invest more of my efforts during the day. The daytime can be a goldmine (some cities more than others, Memphis is not a daygame city while New Orleans is) and I recommend every man to implement some daygame if he wants to increase his pool of suitable mates.


I have a personality in which I can be silly and like to act a fuckin fool. At the same time, I am not that interested in what people have to say unless it affects me directly or indirectly. I am an introverted person who is not very talkative unless I am drinking. The best way for me to strive with my personality is to use a clownish-style of game. I find that women either eat it up or it pisses them off to high heavens. I like to talk to women with very absurd opening statements. If a woman with a black and white striped shirt is there, I would say, “The zebras of the Serengeti have relocated to the rear, don’t lose them.” (DON’T USE MY SHIT!) She would either get the joke immediately, “hahahaha,” get confused “whattttt” or get pissed “you’re not funny.” That’s one way I find enjoyment in life. Since it is a game, it should be fun.

Based on my current location, look, style, income, and personality, I use the game which is best for me. If I were to write a sentence to describe my specific particular game it would be this:

I tend to target black women since I am in the N.O. and have a look that they are receptive to in sports bars/low to middling clubs/or in daygame wearing jeans, v-necks, boots and light accessories running clownish asshole game. 

This can improve or shift which is why it is important to be fluid like water.

“You must be shapeless, formless, like water. When you pour water in a cup, it becomes the cup. When you pour water in a bottle, it becomes the bottle. When you pour water in a teapot, it becomes the teapot. Water can drip and it can crash. Become like water my friend.” -Bruce Lee


First Youtube Video Uploaded

What’s happening everyone! I’ve uploaded my first youtube video. Check out my channel for future uploads.



To Delete or to not Delete her Number

There are two schools of thought on whether or not a man should keep or delete a girl’s number that he got from hollering at her. One contingent argues that you keep the number since you may be able to catch her on a day where she may be feeling receptive to the man’s game. The other contingent argues that you delete her number as soon after two separate attempts to contact her as it is a waste of time trying to sell the girl on the prospect of meeting up again. Let’s get the universal truths about getting numbers straight first, shall we?

1) Numbers are becoming more and more useless. Women give numbers to men a lot of times to avoid a confrontation. Hence, they would prefer to just let the phone ring to reject a man in a passive manner. Women are drunk especially at night and do not remember giving out numbers.

2) A phone number even from a hot lead does not guarantee that the man will ever see her again. Even with the most “ideal” first meeting with her, you are not guaranteed anything. This used to be the case with lukewarm and warm leads but the flakiness even happens with supposed “hot” leads.

In my experience, I have both deleted numbers as well as kept numbers. I cannot say that I have capitalized with “cold” numbers but I have revived some conversational threads with them. Reasons I would delete numbers these days would be due to her being disrespectful or her acting like she does not remember me. I would advise my fellow men to keep numbers until you truly don’t need them anymore. They can always be used in a passive type of game. A decently crafted text or voicemail takes < 10 seconds, not that much of a waste if she responds and agrees to meet up with you is it?

Travel Memoir: Santo Domingo, is Here!

I went to Santo Domingo, Dominican Republic in June and boy did I have a blast!! I wrote this memoir detailing my times there. I am releasing it as an ebook. Click below to get your copy!

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Dryspell = A Return to Fundamentals

However  brief, I know this game has valleys and peaks. – Jay-Z “Can I Live”

The dry spell or drought. Now  before I expound on this phenomenon most men in the dating marketplace (game) have experienced known as a drought, let me refine what I consider a “drought.” What I consider a drought is more than a simple sexless drought. The man experiencing a true drought as defined by me must meet ALL of the following criteria:

  • It mustn’t be by choice
  • Prostitutes cannot break the drought
  • Current FWBs or women in the rotation cannot break the drought
  • Anything under your personal preference of a 7 cannot break the drought

It mustn’t be by choice

If there’s a rare occasion in which a man decides to give up the game for personal reasons such as familial obligations, work, refocus, etc., then he has chosen to be in a voluntary drought. Therefore, a man who is actively engaging with the opposite sex to get laid but has not been getting laid has met this criteria.
Prostitutes cannot break the drought

I am not against men patronizing escorts. Escorts and prostitutes, when priced right, can lower the control attractive non-working women have on the sexual marketplace. Patronizing escorts becomes a problem when a man begins to rely on them for sexual intimacy. Generally speaking, as opposed to regular women, prostitutes are always available for a certain specific monetary price; therefore, they cannot be used to break a drought or dry spell.

Current FWBs or women in the rotation cannot break the drought

The old harem. If a man successfully has a few quality women in rotation, then he could possibly never be in a “sexless drought.” It is the goal for many men who are in the game, to have sex on demand with any of a nice rotation of 3 or 4 quality women. However, this drought I speak of can only include new conquests. Friends With Benefits (FWBs), therefore, cannot break a drought or dry spell.
Anything under your personal perference of a 7 cannot break the drought

In my city, New Orleans, the effort it takes to be intimate with a 9 (there are no 10’s in my eyes) is an order of magnitude harder than an 8, which is an order of magnitude harder than a 7, and so on. I will not fault any man for taking some easy pickings to quell his thirst. We don’t want any violence to occur. However, if you get laid with someone you consciously consider less than your most liberal sexual preference, then no improvement is made and thus the drought or dryspell persists.


A Return to Fundamentals

A man will do as he pleases. In my personal worldview, these are the elements to a true drought. The sharpening of a man’s game who is not necessarily interested in exclusive relationships could only occur from chasing new conquests. Of course, there is something to be done about the drought. You’ve guessed it, I am currently in a long unexpected drought. Therefore, the fundamentals of the game during a drought are more important than ever:

  • Approach, approach, approach, approach, approach, ……..
  • Escalate far as possible at initial interaction
  • Set up dates with optimal logistics