Even if you are not searching for your significant other and looking to continue playing the field, like me, it is good to understand the difference. As a youngling, first crashing onto the dating scene, I could care less about who was wifey material and who was mistress material (an easy smash on the side). I was simply trying to develop my game and smash everything in site. Every female was target practice..even the wifeys. For the most part, I was just trying to add notches under my belt. More notches meant more validation. And of course, more validation meant recognition as a World Class Player…well…at least among the bros.
Unfortunately for females, the wifey/mistress dichotomy is starting to become clearer by the day. Social media and reality television have played an increasingly important role in shedding light on the ulterior motives of women…if they have any. More importantly, the mistresses have acquired unique traits, and the wifeys have acquired their own.
I won’t spend too long on this part because it is quite obvious when you are with a woman who has some “potential.” Using your senses… you can often notice something different about women who have a healthy amount of virtue, purity, and goodness in their soul. Women who are considered to be legitimate wifey/girlfriend material will usually have to be approached during daytime hours, but sometimes they can even be found at nightclubs and bars with the scandalous ones. The good news is that they can be found anywhere…Starbucks, Barnes and Noble, and even social networking sites. If you exchange information with her, you will usually find that your interactions with her are quite unique. Unfortunately, the wifeys will also play games at times, but they do this as a result of peer pressure. They are also protective of their emotions, not their egos.
Social Media Validation
As far as their social media is concerned, these types of females may be a bit insecure, but they aren’t going to do anything blatantly slutty. A lot of their pics on popular social media sites will be of things that they consider interesting, funny events, and places they’ve traveled. You may even notice nieces, nephews, cousins, and other babies in the pics that aren’t even theirs. A love of family and friendship is often displayed in the pictures associated with their social media profiles.
There won’t be much obnoxious name dropping with these types of women, but if they do drop names, it will be of people worth taking note of…you know…real role models. I used to date a girl in Florida who campaigned for John Edwards during her summer internship. The scandal, which revealed his extramarital affairs, would prove that maybe he wasn’t the best role model, but at least the guy used to be a respectable politician. I’ve even chatted with females who talked about working for prominent lawyers in the Dallas-Ft. Worth area, and even knew the District Attorney and Mayor of Dallas. These are the types of people that will be mentioned by the wifeys. Like other females, the wifeys are definitely boasting of their accomplishments and adding on to their social value by mentioning these names…but hey, at least they’re doing it the respectable way.
You and her may bump into her guy friends while spending time with her, but usually the interactions will be platonic, and friendly….Trust me, you can tell if something’s going on.
Flakiness and Communication Skills
As with all women, expect the wifeys to flake just as much as women who are mistress material. Just know that the communication will be there to at least explain why. Excuses are excuses, but at least you’ll get one….and im not talking about the morning after she gets banged by some other guy and is on her way home to watch Basketball Wives. You will usually get your lame excuse that night. Even if it is a lie, she will often put effort into making it seem valid…in order to show you that she actually cares. Communication is often very fluid with women who fall into the wifey category. You will find that your text messages are replied to with complete sentences, which often show that you are chatting with a woman of substance. Phone conversations will also be chatty, and expect a lot of effort from her…due to the fact that wifeys are often trying to seperate themselves from the annoying cum buckets, which we label as “mistress material.”
Mistresses of the 21st century…or side-chicks, whatever you want to call them…have evolved incredibly over time. It is also difficult to tell them apart from the wifeys at times. Yes…they have mastered the art of “blending in.” The additional traits of mistresses often include provocative full body “selfies” on instagram (with tons of likes from thirsty beta males), a large collection of freak-um dresses, and numerous appearances in nightclubs and popular bars in your local downtown/uptown area. Their twerking skills on the dance floor are also proficient and put on display for all to see. Thirsty for a swig of her sexual abilities?…If you’re a smooth and confident alpha-male, feel free to head on to the dance floor as she will be more than willing to grind on your crotch (usually for a maximum of 1-2 songs…you’ll probably only get 30 seconds of she’s a 8,9, or a dime). Betas, on the other hand, will need to take a careful approach in order to get some grind action. Unfortunately, if she’s trying to raise her social value, you may get rejected, but she is a slut, so the chances are good that you’ll get some action. Unfortunately, if you take on the task of “exchanging” with her (conversation, getting the digits, etc.), your troubles may begin if you don’t bang her that very same night.
Social Media Validation
Mistresses are usually a tad bit difficult to deal with. Almost every form of social media has been converted into some type of app that will allow them to receive constant validation simply by pulling out their cell phones. Instagram, Facebook, Plenty of Fish, and Tinder are just a few. But of course, keep in mind that when you guys are kicking it, she will definitely be texting and playing on her “celly” in order to demonstrate her social value.
Also, we cannot forget about the name dropping. A female that is mistress material will consistently name drop local promoters, athletes, entertainers, and other celebrities who have banged, sodomized, and rubbed shoulders with her. For increased social value, she will consistently drop names, tell stories, and show pictures without shame.
Lastly, there may be “surprise” props (other guys) who recognize her and give her a passionate hug and kiss on the cheek during your date with her. If you’re secure with yourself, feel free to introduce yourself to these guys, and maybe even connect with them on social media after exchanging names…if you’re lucky, they may be able to clue you in on how the pussy was and even drop some facts on the type of female that you’re dealing with.
Flakiness and Communication Skills
A lack of grace and excessively sexual body language is a common trait of females with the “mistress” gene. Additionally, flakiness and the inability to adequately answer text messages and phone calls will be common with these types of females. For the most part…your paragraph of text may be answered with only one-five words… 3 hours later, but that’s just the way it is. Keep in mind that there are one hundred other thirsty savages trying to get the “punani: as well….Without a doubt, mistresses are good for their purpose and their sexual abilities are usually indispensable, but “know” the situation before you hop into it. Tragically, women who are mistress material will often succeed in getting married, starting families, and duping men who are otherwise considered respectable. Luckily, that will not be you if your 5 senses are functioning properly. I cannot stress the importance of smashing, banging, and slaying these types as soon as possible. It is perfectly fine to pursue and bang females who are mistress material…but it is perfectly necessary to be able to identify them quickly.
Go Forth And Conquer,