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Find the Game that Works for You

There are many universal truths to the game that hold true for virtually anywhere in the world such as: being confident, wearing nice clothes, not being needy, etc. Nevertheless, there are multiple schools of game that promote certain styles of game over others. There’s asshole/cocky game, clown game, big baller game, romantic game, gangsta game, beta game among others that work at varying degrees of success.  It is imperative you use the optimal game based on your current location, look, style, income, and personality. These are not absolute, however, and can shift especially when relocating or traveling to another city/state/nation.


New Orleans, Louisiana. 2nd tier American city (world class city in some respects), with large tourist population. Targets are: 1) mostly African American women including a large percentage of mulattas, 2) white women from Uptown, Bywater, Lakeview, and neighboring suburbs, 3) latinas predominantly from Honduras, Mexico, and to a lesser extent the Dominican Republic, and 4) tourists from everywhere around the globe. Based on this location with a large AA female population (who show me the most interest), I have found a variant of clown and asshole game gets the best reception from them. If I had the willpower to work 10x as hard than I have to for black women then I would purse more whites and latinas.


I am on the taller half in height, with a slender body, light-skinned black, and so my look from my experiences is most receptive to black women regardless of where I go in America.  I tend to use my time and resources to connect with black women because of that fact. That is not to say, however, that I do not approach women of other races/ethnicities who give me IOIs (indicators of interest) which is not that rare.


I am somewhat thrifty so my outfits from head to toe will seldom cost more than $100 total. I’d like to say I leave the house looking decent but improvement can definitely be made. Every once in a while, I like to wear a suit when I go out. The difference in reception is noticeable. Due to my style, I tend to frequent places where there are a lot of other guys (competition) and have to “out-game” other guys. In the near future, I would like to be comfortable where I can patronize establishments with $15 cocktails pretty often with no sweat along with the attire to boot.


I am of lower middle class income. I am working on increasing that in the next few years. I am considering returning to school for a 2 year skilled craft since my 4 year degree and Master’s haven’t boosted my income. Due to a few changes in my lifestyle, I have been able to save a bit more the past few months. The game I have to use based on my income excludes most high-end establishments (where 8+ women tend to go) so I am consistently in places where there are an equal ratio 1:1 of men to women or places with more men to women.  I don’t do sausagefests. My income level has also caused me to invest more of my efforts during the day. The daytime can be a goldmine (some cities more than others, Memphis is not a daygame city while New Orleans is) and I recommend every man to implement some daygame if he wants to increase his pool of suitable mates.


I have a personality in which I can be silly and like to act a fuckin fool. At the same time, I am not that interested in what people have to say unless it affects me directly or indirectly. I am an introverted person who is not very talkative unless I am drinking. The best way for me to strive with my personality is to use a clownish-style of game. I find that women either eat it up or it pisses them off to high heavens. I like to talk to women with very absurd opening statements. If a woman with a black and white striped shirt is there, I would say, “The zebras of the Serengeti have relocated to the rear, don’t lose them.” (DON’T USE MY SHIT!) She would either get the joke immediately, “hahahaha,” get confused “whattttt” or get pissed “you’re not funny.” That’s one way I find enjoyment in life. Since it is a game, it should be fun.

Based on my current location, look, style, income, and personality, I use the game which is best for me. If I were to write a sentence to describe my specific particular game it would be this:

I tend to target black women since I am in the N.O. and have a look that they are receptive to in sports bars/low to middling clubs/or in daygame wearing jeans, v-necks, boots and light accessories running clownish asshole game. 

This can improve or shift which is why it is important to be fluid like water.

“You must be shapeless, formless, like water. When you pour water in a cup, it becomes the cup. When you pour water in a bottle, it becomes the bottle. When you pour water in a teapot, it becomes the teapot. Water can drip and it can crash. Become like water my friend.” -Bruce Lee



Modern Female B.S.

Why you wanna play games on me?


So, I told the red 7.5/10 (not quite a fiya red) who I had met in the street to scoop me up so we could get a drink or two and some apps at a Mexican cafe. She parked her old school car 1990s across the street from my crib.  Got to have the logistics right! I offered to drive since it would have been a more comfortable ride. She stood about 5’2 and had a decent ethnic hairstyle. So, off we go to our destination. During the ride, she is hesitant to talk and takes out her phone often. Her being 23, I thought nothing of it and know that phones have made the game a bit harder these days for men. The constant stream of validation that comes with having public information for the world to see on platforms such as Facebook, twitter, instagram, among others has enabled the most average of chicks to get loads of attention from desirable males. Nevertheless, Red 7.5/10 and I arrive at our destination. I order our drinks and start some playful conversation. She’s not biting any of it. She stays on her phone for a while. After minutes of one word responses to my conversation, I finally call her out on having her phone out on our date. “Hey, what are you doing on your phone? It’s not cool to be on your phone the entire time during a date.” She replied, “oh well you didn’t ask me what I was doing on my phone.” At that point, I realized who I was dealing with. The modern slightly above average looking woman with the attention span of a fly rears its ugly head. She goes further and says, “hey, I may be leaving soon since my girlfriend has gotten into a fight with her boyfriend.” I say, “Okay, I’ll take you home after these drinks.” She replies, “Well, my friend may come get me if need be.” I say ok and we chat for 5 minutes. Her body language is frozen as the entire night wore on not giving any IOI’s (indicators of interest). Soon after, she answers the phone says, “yes, ok,” then hangs up. She tells me, “good bye, my friend is here to pick me up.” She then reached for a hug and left and told me to text her. I sat there amazed at her thinking that I would actually text her after this day. There’s no way I’m even contacting her again unless she shows up at my house with a T-shirt with nothing on underneath (won’t get my hopes up for that).

red woman texting

Lessons learned: Not every approach will bring sex into your life. Quality approaches are most important. The higher quality approach, the higher the chance she will get intimate with you. I spent a grand total of 3 minutes chatting with this girl before we had exchanged phone numbers and split. Getting women is a numbers game but it should be said that getting high quality leads are important in game and in the business world.