There are many universal truths to the game that hold true for virtually anywhere in the world such as: being confident, wearing nice clothes, not being needy, etc. Nevertheless, there are multiple schools of game that promote certain styles of game over others. There’s asshole/cocky game, clown game, big baller game, romantic game, gangsta game, beta game among others that work at varying degrees of success. It is imperative you use the optimal game based on your current location, look, style, income, and personality. These are not absolute, however, and can shift especially when relocating or traveling to another city/state/nation.
Location
New Orleans, Louisiana. 2nd tier American city (world class city in some respects), with large tourist population. Targets are: 1) mostly African American women including a large percentage of mulattas, 2) white women from Uptown, Bywater, Lakeview, and neighboring suburbs, 3) latinas predominantly from Honduras, Mexico, and to a lesser extent the Dominican Republic, and 4) tourists from everywhere around the globe. Based on this location with a large AA female population (who show me the most interest), I have found a variant of clown and asshole game gets the best reception from them. If I had the willpower to work 10x as hard than I have to for black women then I would purse more whites and latinas.
Look
I am on the taller half in height, with a slender body, light-skinned black, and so my look from my experiences is most receptive to black women regardless of where I go in America. I tend to use my time and resources to connect with black women because of that fact. That is not to say, however, that I do not approach women of other races/ethnicities who give me IOIs (indicators of interest) which is not that rare.
Style
I am somewhat thrifty so my outfits from head to toe will seldom cost more than $100 total. I’d like to say I leave the house looking decent but improvement can definitely be made. Every once in a while, I like to wear a suit when I go out. The difference in reception is noticeable. Due to my style, I tend to frequent places where there are a lot of other guys (competition) and have to “out-game” other guys. In the near future, I would like to be comfortable where I can patronize establishments with $15 cocktails pretty often with no sweat along with the attire to boot.
Income
I am of lower middle class income. I am working on increasing that in the next few years. I am considering returning to school for a 2 year skilled craft since my 4 year degree and Master’s haven’t boosted my income. Due to a few changes in my lifestyle, I have been able to save a bit more the past few months. The game I have to use based on my income excludes most high-end establishments (where 8+ women tend to go) so I am consistently in places where there are an equal ratio 1:1 of men to women or places with more men to women. I don’t do sausagefests. My income level has also caused me to invest more of my efforts during the day. The daytime can be a goldmine (some cities more than others, Memphis is not a daygame city while New Orleans is) and I recommend every man to implement some daygame if he wants to increase his pool of suitable mates.
Personality
I have a personality in which I can be silly and like to act a fuckin fool. At the same time, I am not that interested in what people have to say unless it affects me directly or indirectly. I am an introverted person who is not very talkative unless I am drinking. The best way for me to strive with my personality is to use a clownish-style of game. I find that women either eat it up or it pisses them off to high heavens. I like to talk to women with very absurd opening statements. If a woman with a black and white striped shirt is there, I would say, “The zebras of the Serengeti have relocated to the rear, don’t lose them.” (DON’T USE MY SHIT!) She would either get the joke immediately, “hahahaha,” get confused “whattttt” or get pissed “you’re not funny.” That’s one way I find enjoyment in life. Since it is a game, it should be fun.
Based on my current location, look, style, income, and personality, I use the game which is best for me. If I were to write a sentence to describe my specific particular game it would be this:
I tend to target black women since I am in the N.O. and have a look that they are receptive to in sports bars/low to middling clubs/or in daygame wearing jeans, v-necks, boots and light accessories running clownish asshole game.
This can improve or shift which is why it is important to be fluid like water.
“You must be shapeless, formless, like water. When you pour water in a cup, it becomes the cup. When you pour water in a bottle, it becomes the bottle. When you pour water in a teapot, it becomes the teapot. Water can drip and it can crash. Become like water my friend.” -Bruce Lee
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